Slow Progress Is Still Progress…. It Just Feels Like It’s Not

After finishing the first draft of my novel in May 2012, I gave it a second dusting off then set it aside on Dec. 1, 2012.

My writing group friends, aware of my tendency toward being shy regarding my creativity, therefore gave me an assignment. My sister Angela said it kindly, but the essence of the assignment is this: Finish the freaking novel already and send. it. out.

I took the following picture to let her know that, yes, on January 1, 2013, I started my final edits on this project. See?

Editing one's book requires lots of time, coffee, and a sense of humor. #writing #writinggroup #doodles

The process is slow. I’m on page 49 out of 358 pages. It feels even slower when I think that this novel has taken me about three years to write. However, as Angela, Mark, and I remind ourselves: Don’t rush the process.

The three of us have day jobs, children, relationships, etc. that require ginormous amounts of our time. Angela writes at the crack of dawn, Mark works in bits and pieces of stolen time, I carve out a couple of hours in the late evening. Progress for all of us is slow… but the main focus is to make progress. That’s the unofficial motto for our writing group: Keep moving forward… even if you move at a snail’s pace.

As long as you’re not moving backwards, you’re doing well…

Why Do You Want to Be Published?

Irene Dunne

At our most recent writing group meeting, Mark (our newest member) asked me, “Why do you want your novel to be published? Is it for fame? Validation? Money? Accomplishment?”

An interesting question.

Fame doesn’t interest me. I’d like my stories to be read, of course, but I don’t care about being in the spotlight for the sake of being in the spotlight. If I’d wanted to be famous, I could have chosen more spotlight-y behavior than becoming a person who scribbles all the time. Money is always nice to have—but I rely on my full-time job for a paycheck. My articles and blog posts are published at work, which validates my belief that I can write.

So, then, why does it rankle that my first publishable novel (not my first few amateurish works) has not been published yet? Why do I want the novel published? I have a few reasons.

Books are meant to be published. I see publication as being the normal outcome for a finished piece of writing. If you look at the life cycle of a written piece, the last stage is publication. A writer expects it to complete the cycle. Otherwise, it feels much like planting a seed, watering it, nurturing the soil, weeding its area… and never seeing it bloom.

Conversations should be two-way. If you write a book and do not publish it, you are talking to yourself. You’ve said something to the air. Your reader is the other half of the conversation, and she is needed. (Yes, books also are therapeutic and immensely help writers better understand the world… but at the end of the day, writers want their work read by others.)

You want people to get to know your make-believe friends. Just like I have real-life friends who I introduce to other friends, I’d like people to meet my make-believe friends. “Get to know Isabela. She’s icy at first, but you’ll grow to love her…” 

You want your voice to be heard by others. You know how in movies, a character will stand up amid the madding crowd and shout, “I have something to say! Can I say something?” And, if it’s a Capra movie, everyone will finally shut up, and the main character will break into a moving speech. That’s what getting a novel published would be like for me. It’s getting my voice heard, even if for just a moment, amid the noise.

At the heart of it, writers write because they need to tell a story... and getting published is knowing that someone will hear it.

Why do you want to be published? What are your expectations or dreams or hopes?

The Perfect Wine for a Writing Group Meeting

When our favorite bartender, who keeps our writing group hydrated, broke out this bottle of wine for us, our fondness for him went up yet another notch.

First, the name is literary: Faust.

And second, if that wasn’t just quirky enough, the label has this quote:

“If feelings fail you, vain will be your course and idle what you plan unless your art springs from the soul with elemental force.” (Goethe)

Good nourishment—for the body and the imagination.